Hey! I'm Joel. Wanna go on a date?
(and yes, this is real lol)
After watching the video above, you and I might just go on a date.
Dating apps are flawed. Hours of swiping, then you find out they aren't serious about their faith, they make sexual comments (worldly minded guys do this) or excited about what God is doing.
So one day I had a slightly crazy idea: what if I made a whole page and video instead?
Why? Honestly, I thought it would be funny.
But also, just imagine telling our kids and friends the story one day. "Yeah, your dad found me through an Instagram ad." It's an incredibly unique story, and a pretty cool one. 😂
In the video you'll get a feel for my personality and my heart. If you think we'd be a good fit and make it to the end, you can request a date. If not, no worries. I'm not for everyone. Let's talk and see what God wills to happen! (there's no risk)
So Who Am I?
I am...
● A guy who quit business and career completely because the Lord called me to travel and preach... but who also talks about Jesus A LOT, and is honestly a bit dumb in other areas (kind of aha).
● A musician who grew up mastering guitar and some vocals and used to write songs... but also someone which 90% of people thought he was 27 years old when he was 23. (I look my age, but my maturity is much beyond my age)
● A guy whose mum thinks he's "too extreme" because I once travelled to a tribe that hunts, eats wild animals, and practises witchcraft 👀 (it was a mission trip, Mum. It's fine.)
● A cat owner whose cat is also a dog. He's a dog/cat hybrid. I don't make the rules.
Okay, jokes aside, here's my story and the three things I've learned.
My Life's Story
(that no one asked for)
I was raised in a Christian household, but I wasn't saved until I was 15. That's when everything changed. Since that encounter, I've been on fire for Jesus. I read the Word and pray every single day. He's my source of peace, joy, and my hiding place.
Later, I was running a business and was doing well, then completely quit and shut it down after the Lord so clearly showing me I will travel and preach around the whole world. I have a powerful testimony but I'll save that for our date :)
When God calls, obey, even if it doesn't make sense. Walking away from business and a career was one of the scariest and best decisions I've made.
I have a senior pastor who's like a spiritual father to me. We meet 1:1 regularly, and he gives me godly counsel on faith and everything in life. I took him with me to India to preach and serve among the lepers, slums, and unreached tribes deep in the forests. So many miracles, testimonies, and humbling experiences.
Don't walk alone. Wise counsel and people who tell you the truth make you better.
I also have a heart for missions, especially for the unreached, people who've never heard the name of Jesus. That's a big part of where my life is heading.
God is able to deliver, and even if He doesn't, I'll still trust Him. Daniel 2:17 is my life verse: our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the furnace of blazing fire, but even if He doesn't, we will not bow. That's the faith I want to live out, and the kind of person I want beside me.
So that brings me to today...
I'm dating with the hope of marriage, not to play games. I want a family one day.
I'm serious about pursuing holiness. I abstain from lust and pornography, and I'm waiting until marriage. I look after my health and exercise several times a week, I love worship music with good theology, and I enjoy eating a lot as well.
I'm looking for someone who loves Jesus, shares my values, and wants to chase Jesus with me. I'm not chasing wealth, and I'm hoping for someone who isn't either. I want to live a life of purpose with experiences in the Lord and store up riches and wealth in Heaven!
If you're interested, click the button below and fill out the form. If we're a good fit, I'll reach out. Worst case, we'll be friends!
(Psst! Know someone who'd be a great match? Share this page!)
I'm NOT for Everyone
I'm probably not for you if:
1. Faith isn't central to your life. Jesus comes first for me, and that won't change.
2. You don't want to wait until marriage. I'm waiting, and I'm serious about it.
3. You care more about money and status than about the Lord. I've walked away from business and a career, so I'm not the guy for that.
4. You want to live an average Christian life that doesn't do much for the Lord.
Contact me if:
1. You love Jesus and want to follow Him wholeheartedly.
2. You have a heart for missions, or at least the courage to follow God into the unknown.
3. You have conservative values, and are family-oriented.
4. You're open to a long-distance relationship (if you're not from Sydney)
5. You can laugh until your stomach hurts.
Imagine us going on a date, sharing good food (I'll steal a few of your chips), laughing about something dumb, and talking about faith and what God is doing in our lives. And then, years from now, telling our kids: "Yep, your dad found me through an Instagram ad."
Dating me is like finding a man who'll pray with you, make you laugh until your stomach hurts, steal a few of your chips, and remind you that you're God's favourite... after me, of course 😂
If you're the kind of girl who'd go on a date with a guy she found through an ad, click below and let's see where things go. I look forward to meeting you!
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this real?
Yes. I find the idea hilarious, but it's completely real.
Why not just use a dating app?
I did. You can't learn much about a person from a bio, and I'd rather spend my time with Jesus than swiping. This page lets you see who I am on a deeper level, and lets us both filter for people who are serious about faith. Plus, it makes a way better story.
Where are you located? Are you open to long distance?
I'm based in Sydney, Australia. Since I'm called to travel and preach, I'll be moving around, so be open to adventure. 😄
What's your denomination?
I'm a Pentecostal that believes in the spiritual gifts for today. I do like and have been to Anglican and Baptist churches, but I'm more aligned with Pentecostal beliefs.